Hal, what alternator do you have? Some, like the Raceline supplied one need a battery +ve feed to a small terminal near the main connector.
when I installed the Emerald K3 ecu, I found I couldn't, switch it off, as there was a feed back to the ignition switch through the alternator, I isolated this by installing another relay, energised by the ign switch, perhaps your switch is wired similarly, As for fuses, well mine has re-settable circuit breakers.
Regards Nigel.
1982, zetec 2l, ali and BRG, and good old Clamshells